My Experience with Online Dating: A Case Study

My Experience with Online Dating: A Case Study.

Over a period of time, I decided that I would indulge in some Online Dating; for the perspective of gaining insight into what people (women) think, desire, project, aim for, and accept. The aim's of this paper is to examine a number of key view points and possible misconceptions, dissecting these statements and pointing out the weaknesses and ignorances of this approach.

In the time I have maintained a membership I have noticed a number of glaring statements; the basis for all of these lies within the person stating the desire, rather than with the recipients.

Two of the most notiable claims are as follows; "I want to meet a man who is single, and has no children." and "I want to meet a man who makes me number one and does not spend time with lots of girls."

In my eyes and experience both these views are laughable and rejection of them from a female perspective would bring more contentment than pain.

Let us examine the "Single Father viewpoint first".

The attitude towards Single Fathers and negativity is quite pathetic and immature, Males do not have complete control over conception and birth, this lies within the Females power. If a Male makes a mistake, he cannot always rectify this. However; he can be responsible, patient, open, nurturing, warm, calm and protective. The majority of Single Fathers who are the opposite to this are in fact scared, confused and unsure, they do not understand how to deal with these events and feel overwhelmed.

Secondly, the view regarding Males with Female friends. If someone is of Quality, a Standard, Intelligence and Experience then obviously they will be admired by a majority of people. This includes Women as friends. Women make statements about wanting to be all alone with a guy without realising one simple fact "A Male without Female friends, especially those of a Respectable Lifestyle and Nature are NOT the Quality that they assume." In short "If your bf only has yourself and no friends, he is a loser. No girl is going to try and steal him because they already see his flaws".