Daryl Brunt (c) 2010 Don't STEAL My Shit MOFO's (I need to re-write this and change the structure)
I guess I should start this Essay cum Book with some sort of Introduction, I mean after all, I am sure the are going to be plenty readers who are going to raise the questions "Why does this mere male think he knows so much about women?" and "What are his qualifications? Has he even got any life experience to make these statements". So yes, we'll start with my background. I know women, women of all shapes and sizes, races and nationalities. I won't raise my hand and say that I am a player or I have been a player, but I have had a number of adventures over the years, including a period of single fatherhood and during these events I have definitely taken to time to sit back and observe the dynamics of people and cracks within those around me. Ok, concede that I may have a clue.
People (Women) often make the statement that Men are the weaker sex, unfortunately, in my experience, I really dispute this. Yes, I agree that Men are somewhat weaker in the 21st Century than at any othertime in history and some Men are definitely weaker than Women in small numbers, but sadly Women are even weaker still. Ignoring that petty arguement it is obvious to see that the weakness in both Genders stems from their own personal self esteem issues. These self esteem issues create vulnerabilities and cause both gender groups to act and react in a different way. Women often seek to validate their lives by gaining the attentions of Men. Often this need is satisfied in a sexual manner, Men in turn also seek to validate themselves, and just like women, this is in a sexual manner. Often that, in regards to Men, represents a numbers game. Personally I would admit to this flaw, although I seem to have some control over this, though vulnerability still remains. In saying that, it should be considered that this essay/book is written from a Man's perspective in regards to women around him and Men will not be discussed in great lengths.
The 20th and 21st century brought society an explosion in the use of sexual imagary within the media; advertising, role models, image association and the like. Often these views were subconsciously pushed, although there is an awareness within behavioural studies about what effects these pressures cause within the recepients. Women in general usually gain their initial self esteem from their figure and physical representation, when this fails to deliver the expected outcomes, they question this first. This question is raised regardless of the realistic connection between the positive and negative situations.
The reason this is physical is often raised, generally by Women rather than Men is because of their measure of confidence. The 21st Century is a creation of Men; the Professions, the Goals, the Aims. All things are generally taken from a male perspective. In essence then, this also means that the tools for measuring confidence are also of male origin. Men tend to measure things in a less emotional, more tangible way. In other words, how something looks. If it looks bad, then it needs repair, or change, or adjustment, or replacing. Women tend to measure things in a emotional way; how things feel, or make them feel, or what they radiate.
[In the Development Stage, like a nice Dinner....marinating in my head :P]
I guess I should start this Essay cum Book with some sort of Introduction, I mean after all, I am sure the are going to be plenty readers who are going to raise the questions "Why does this mere male think he knows so much about women?" and "What are his qualifications? Has he even got any life experience to make these statements". So yes, we'll start with my background. I know women, women of all shapes and sizes, races and nationalities. I won't raise my hand and say that I am a player or I have been a player, but I have had a number of adventures over the years, including a period of single fatherhood and during these events I have definitely taken to time to sit back and observe the dynamics of people and cracks within those around me. Ok, concede that I may have a clue.
People (Women) often make the statement that Men are the weaker sex, unfortunately, in my experience, I really dispute this. Yes, I agree that Men are somewhat weaker in the 21st Century than at any othertime in history and some Men are definitely weaker than Women in small numbers, but sadly Women are even weaker still. Ignoring that petty arguement it is obvious to see that the weakness in both Genders stems from their own personal self esteem issues. These self esteem issues create vulnerabilities and cause both gender groups to act and react in a different way. Women often seek to validate their lives by gaining the attentions of Men. Often this need is satisfied in a sexual manner, Men in turn also seek to validate themselves, and just like women, this is in a sexual manner. Often that, in regards to Men, represents a numbers game. Personally I would admit to this flaw, although I seem to have some control over this, though vulnerability still remains. In saying that, it should be considered that this essay/book is written from a Man's perspective in regards to women around him and Men will not be discussed in great lengths.
The 20th and 21st century brought society an explosion in the use of sexual imagary within the media; advertising, role models, image association and the like. Often these views were subconsciously pushed, although there is an awareness within behavioural studies about what effects these pressures cause within the recepients. Women in general usually gain their initial self esteem from their figure and physical representation, when this fails to deliver the expected outcomes, they question this first. This question is raised regardless of the realistic connection between the positive and negative situations.
The reason this is physical is often raised, generally by Women rather than Men is because of their measure of confidence. The 21st Century is a creation of Men; the Professions, the Goals, the Aims. All things are generally taken from a male perspective. In essence then, this also means that the tools for measuring confidence are also of male origin. Men tend to measure things in a less emotional, more tangible way. In other words, how something looks. If it looks bad, then it needs repair, or change, or adjustment, or replacing. Women tend to measure things in a emotional way; how things feel, or make them feel, or what they radiate.
[In the Development Stage, like a nice Dinner....marinating in my head :P]
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