The Ladder Theory is a Relationship/Friendship Theory that places people in a particular place on a ladder as we see them, supposably we have 2; those as friends and those as possibilities. The Theory is basically that these people cannot jump Ladder to Ladder nor move any relative distance. The basic premise is flawed. The reason for this is primarily that the Theory requires life to be Static or Stagnant and does not acknowledge that we are infact Dynamic, or in Flux, there is no room for improvement nor failure.
I.e the Fat kid cannot become the muscular attractive kid if he has already been placed on the ladder on 1 spot
Monday, January 2, 2012
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Lessons Learnt
Anyone who has read anything I wrote knows that I rarely blog what is on my mind, but generally digest and then dissect what I see around me. I am fairly disappointed with the state of friendship in today's society, there seems to be an increasing level of "territorialism" being applied in this area of life. For what point? For what gain? Absolutely nothing. I just lost 2 girls I consider worthwhile friends in the longterm, simply because both parties are to immature to see why there is value or reasons in knowing both. One girl trains to the utmost and is exceedingly disciplined, my masculine side respects and enjoys that, the other is more relaxed and arty. Both connections appeal to my psyche. Yet the insecurities that are in their own minds twist the reality and reason behind the wishes to connection. In an ideal World all parties could have coffee, 1 to 1, 1 to 2, it would not matter. It makes me pained to have this experience over and over...
Saturday, November 12, 2011
How to get a Nice Ass Ver2
Without an Ass many Women and even Men lack shape (although I rarely have no interest in the Men situation, but it is still accurate). They lack the shape in Dresses, Fitted Pants, Bikini's, Hot Pants, etc. Many Women also are under a number of misconceptions regarding how to get a nice ass. This is evident in Training Programmes found in Gyms and the General Populations POV.
I have written the below; with some help by a number of my female friends; to help rectify this issue. They have been willing to provide examples of what a Good Ass looks like and how this can be achieved. Please note that this is not linked to any ethnic group or racial profile but certain populations have an advantage. I.e Latin or African American & African
Misconception 1: Squats make an Ass
A good ass is a consequence of Squats. Incorrect; Squats are an exercise that improve the amount of Muscle located around the Thighs and Hamstrings. Squats are generally undertaken by Athletes that require size and power. i.e Rugby, American Football. A programme with Squats will NOT give you a nice Ass, it will in fact give you a large amount of Muscle that will be without Shape and Droop. Squats ARE required to give the muscle size NEEDED to make a Nice Ass, however as the preferred size becomes apparent, the amount of Squats undertaken and weight lifted should be REDUCED. This requirement is due to the nature of constant stimulation of the lower body in day to day activity.
Misconception 2: Only African and Latin Women can have a bouncy round ass.
A nice Ass is a combination of 2 things; Appropriate Muscle Mass and Appropriate Fat Distribution. A person's genetic may play a part in getting to the result alot quicker, however it is nonsense to assume that being Asian and Western that a nice ass is beyond your reach. A proper training programme is required to reach this goal. Even if you have no Ass at all, this can be changed. It may take a period of time and cause a great deal of Muscle Soreness, but it will occur. (The above picts are actually Asian and Western)
Ass Test:
Firstly you need to give yourself the Ass Test. Now if you DONT have an Ass, you fail this test. Its for those who need tone and improve. Developing an Ass is a different approach.
To do this test, you need to understand the following.
A Nice ASS Bounces, it does NOT Jiggle like Jelly, or Wobble like Homer Simpsons belly.
It has a smooth bounce, when dancing or being spanked.
1. So to do this test you need to be Naked or in a Thong. You ass needs NO support.
2. Stand up straight, in front of a mirror or turn and look down and ur hip. (Twist from the waist)
3. Give your ass a nice sharp spank, and watch it moves. If it jiggles randomly in multiple directions and looks like someone threw a rock in a puddle, it definitely needs work. If it bounces smoothly, the same a when you smack muscle, then your on the right track.
Exercises to Improve your Ass. (Use Google Images or something)
1. Squats are a Joke. If you have an ASS, the doing SQUATS will make your ASS bigger. If you DONT have n ASS then DO SQUATS until it is present and then STOP. Unless you want to be "Like Woah"
2. Do deep Bulgarian Split Squats. Dumbbell or Barbell (3-4 Sets, 12-15 Reps per Leg, 60-90seconds Rest)
3. Do pelvic thrusts. (Similar to the pilates exercise, except the feet extended are further from the body. (Do 20-30 for 2-3seconds eac)
4. Do alot of toe touches to stretch the hamstring, a nice ass and legs have nice long muscles, they show firmness and leanness.
5. Throw in some deep, light weight, high rep Legpress. (20reps, 3sets)
Cardio for a Nice Ass:
When developing an Ass
1. Stick to a decent time Period on the Stepper. approximately 20mins per Session. Slow Speed
2. Do approximately 15mins Per Session on the Treadmill
When you have an Ass.
1. Do approximately 10mins Per Session on the Stepper
2. Do approximately 30mins Per Session on the Treadmill
Enjoy your bikini's
-Daryl
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Why do Relationships lose their vigor over the longterm.
The other day I was asked the question. "Do Men lose interest in their wives/gf's over-time?". The simple answer is generally Yes. The follow-up question is Why?
The 20th and 21st Century are periods of time that brought about a great deal of changes in the options for Women in the West. Prior to these changes they were mostly seen as silent partners in a relationship. These changes allowed for women to gain more independence and expand their interests. The problem is when Women generally enter a relationship they cut off numerous interests that they maintain and also a number of friends. In essence they mirror their male partners; friends, social agenda's, interests; forsaking their own. Prior to the 20th Century, this was considered the normal approach and would have been applauded by Mothers and Grand Mothers. However, this isolation and lack of independent identity creates internal conflict and frustration. In order to maintain a relationship headed in the same direction it is important to maintain 3 sets of interests and social connections; Hers, Theirs and His. This thought pattern is something quite difficult to accept and change. Since birth, and even during schooling Men and Women are often segregated in activities. An analysis of the Divorce Rate in young people will show this trend. The difficulty of this situation is it is quite difficult to develop the Hers and His identity while in an existing relationship, unless the activity is particularly feminine and/or masculine and the other party is secure enough to allow these developments.
The best approach is to consider what sort of interests you have, and wish to maintain. For example; I personally will NOT consider a relationship with a girl who does not work out. Not to the extend to which I mayself may train, but enough to know that she understands Goals, Discipline, Dieting, Muscle Soreness, etc. This is an important basis in a structure. The alternative point may be that a Woman may insist that her Man knows how to dance a structured dance. I.e Salsa, Rumba, Ball Room.
Sadly, given the age in which most people undertake their first serious relationship a large percentage of people, especially the women, lack the opportunity to develop their own identities. This failure to be actually unique and show unique combinations leads to insecurity due to a issue with being seperated from the crowd. This can be shown later in the habits of later adolesence and early adult life, people seek to differentiate themselves greatly; i.e tattoos, piercings, etc.
The root cause of this problem actually lays with the ignorance of the Government and Education system around us.
TBC
The 20th and 21st Century are periods of time that brought about a great deal of changes in the options for Women in the West. Prior to these changes they were mostly seen as silent partners in a relationship. These changes allowed for women to gain more independence and expand their interests. The problem is when Women generally enter a relationship they cut off numerous interests that they maintain and also a number of friends. In essence they mirror their male partners; friends, social agenda's, interests; forsaking their own. Prior to the 20th Century, this was considered the normal approach and would have been applauded by Mothers and Grand Mothers. However, this isolation and lack of independent identity creates internal conflict and frustration. In order to maintain a relationship headed in the same direction it is important to maintain 3 sets of interests and social connections; Hers, Theirs and His. This thought pattern is something quite difficult to accept and change. Since birth, and even during schooling Men and Women are often segregated in activities. An analysis of the Divorce Rate in young people will show this trend. The difficulty of this situation is it is quite difficult to develop the Hers and His identity while in an existing relationship, unless the activity is particularly feminine and/or masculine and the other party is secure enough to allow these developments.
The best approach is to consider what sort of interests you have, and wish to maintain. For example; I personally will NOT consider a relationship with a girl who does not work out. Not to the extend to which I mayself may train, but enough to know that she understands Goals, Discipline, Dieting, Muscle Soreness, etc. This is an important basis in a structure. The alternative point may be that a Woman may insist that her Man knows how to dance a structured dance. I.e Salsa, Rumba, Ball Room.
Sadly, given the age in which most people undertake their first serious relationship a large percentage of people, especially the women, lack the opportunity to develop their own identities. This failure to be actually unique and show unique combinations leads to insecurity due to a issue with being seperated from the crowd. This can be shown later in the habits of later adolesence and early adult life, people seek to differentiate themselves greatly; i.e tattoos, piercings, etc.
The root cause of this problem actually lays with the ignorance of the Government and Education system around us.
TBC
Thursday, October 6, 2011
Economic Recovery and Employment Curtailed by Corporations and Naive Governments
Why is the Global Economy close to a second recession and why has the US Economy failed to recover? Simple. Democracy and Corporate Monopolies.
In order to understand how this might be possible, it would be good to understand how Corporations work in regards to Infrastructure development projects.
Example: A Government body decides that they need build a new airport. They work out the cost of investment and the number of jobs that will be created through the process. I.e 5000 Construction Staff. There are 10000 unemployed, but 5000 currently working in this same industry. So they estimate that half their unemployment numbers will be reduced by 50%, making it 10000 employed and 5000 unemployed.
Makes sense so far? sounds good?
Ok, the next step is to release the project to a Tender Bid. This is when they invite all the EPCM's to bid on the costs. The problem is, alot of these EPCM's have an existing workforce and engineering team and add the acquired work onto the end of their contract amounts. They may only recruit another 1000 staff because they use their existing teams.
Does this make sense?
In order to understand how this might be possible, it would be good to understand how Corporations work in regards to Infrastructure development projects.
Example: A Government body decides that they need build a new airport. They work out the cost of investment and the number of jobs that will be created through the process. I.e 5000 Construction Staff. There are 10000 unemployed, but 5000 currently working in this same industry. So they estimate that half their unemployment numbers will be reduced by 50%, making it 10000 employed and 5000 unemployed.
Makes sense so far? sounds good?
Ok, the next step is to release the project to a Tender Bid. This is when they invite all the EPCM's to bid on the costs. The problem is, alot of these EPCM's have an existing workforce and engineering team and add the acquired work onto the end of their contract amounts. They may only recruit another 1000 staff because they use their existing teams.
Does this make sense?
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Pisces and Capricorn Relationship (My experience)
This is one of the few Astrological Starsign Relationships I am completely familiar with; having been involved with numerous Capricorn Women and being a Pisces. (Strangely enough, my closest Male friend is also a Capricorn and there are a few other Pisces in the group).
The Capricorn/Pisces relationship is almost a perfect synergy, almost, but not quite.
Capricorns rely on a Pisces ability to be perceptive and push them towards their dreams, even if the Pisces lacks their own ability. Pisces often benefit from a large amount of attention from a Capricorn, this balances their vulernabilities and insecurities. Pisces are often forced to keep up with Capricorns in a social sense and this offers a Weakness in the relationship. Pisces are flirtatious similarly to Capricorns, but more shy when it comes to new situations. Capricorns are more likely to jump in straight away. This shyness in a Pisces often means that they shy from public situations (especially in Males).
Pisces are usually generous givers, this is greatly appreciated by Capricorns, who although are not materialistic in the sense of the Saggitarius cousins, who do appreciate some lavishness at times.
Capricorns generally repay the favours, as they innately feel a need to show their emotions through tasks such as cooking, etc. Capricorns are also greatly impressed by a Pisces abilities to absorb and understand a great deal of information. The ability to provide insight to foreign concepts impresses greatly. Although Pisces often get frustrated by the continual need to roll the ball (the ball being the Capricorn) and strive to create prepetual motion.
Weak Pisces and Capricorns are often a self esteem disaster as both have incredible lows and frustrations with those around them. Often the overextend in friendships about them and ultimately feel betrayed.
TBC
The Capricorn/Pisces relationship is almost a perfect synergy, almost, but not quite.
Capricorns rely on a Pisces ability to be perceptive and push them towards their dreams, even if the Pisces lacks their own ability. Pisces often benefit from a large amount of attention from a Capricorn, this balances their vulernabilities and insecurities. Pisces are often forced to keep up with Capricorns in a social sense and this offers a Weakness in the relationship. Pisces are flirtatious similarly to Capricorns, but more shy when it comes to new situations. Capricorns are more likely to jump in straight away. This shyness in a Pisces often means that they shy from public situations (especially in Males).
Pisces are usually generous givers, this is greatly appreciated by Capricorns, who although are not materialistic in the sense of the Saggitarius cousins, who do appreciate some lavishness at times.
Capricorns generally repay the favours, as they innately feel a need to show their emotions through tasks such as cooking, etc. Capricorns are also greatly impressed by a Pisces abilities to absorb and understand a great deal of information. The ability to provide insight to foreign concepts impresses greatly. Although Pisces often get frustrated by the continual need to roll the ball (the ball being the Capricorn) and strive to create prepetual motion.
Weak Pisces and Capricorns are often a self esteem disaster as both have incredible lows and frustrations with those around them. Often the overextend in friendships about them and ultimately feel betrayed.
TBC
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Understanding Expats in Asia and their triggers/reasons/insecurities
Alot of people may dispute what I am about to write, but you know what? "Fuck them". You might question my arguement and validity, but at the end of the day, unless you have something strong back your views up with, you will have to conceed.
In order to give a fair viewpoint I should probably explain in brief my own background.
I was born and raised in Australia, I played alot of sport, went to a decent private school for my primary years, followed that to a decent mid-tier private school for upper studies before boredom made me transfer to one of the poorest "hardest" school's in the state. Crazy choice, now that is a regret. Anyway, so I failed highschool, went to tech-school, got bored, sat my university extrance exams and went to university. Along the way I became a drug dealer, partied alot, still hit the gym and played sport. In all this time, I paid attention to the media and people around me. That gives me some sort of experience in making this statement.
In the West (the US, Australia, NZ, UK, etc) a Male at school is applauded for having a great deal of athletic ability. Where as in the East (Singapore, HK, Japan, etc) the ability to count and be good at science is appluaded. These situations have an affect on the esteem levels of people. People in the West, especially males who are good at "non-athletic" activities are not applauded, people who take drama class I.e GLEE CLUB Nonsense are considered effeminate, just like the male cheer leaders in Bring It On.
In short, people who fail to succeed athletically develop insecurities and low self esteem. It is innate, if the school bully says "Move!" you Move. Whether it is when you are 15, or 35. Same with the school jock (Athlete). So basically these people are losers!. Sounds harsh!, but do we watch EPL, and Rugby and the NBA, or the NFL or chess and maths competitions? You know the answer. Thus expats take this personal atttiude and viewpoint of themselves to the places they relocate. They recieve attention from Women. Women they only imagined at school, Women they fantasied about. Thus they treat Women like Shit. They have no respect. Their level of Self Esteem complicates this ability to show Respect and be content. Their fears make the chase and swap partners regularly. Thus damaging the people around themselves. Just because someone is a trader or a banker DOES NOT MAKE THEM NOT A LOSER. If they are expat, trust me, when someone who is an athlete or confident walks past, they will be quiet. When someone challenges them; they will be quiet. Why? Fear and Memories of the way those "athletes" made them feel growing up.
I need to elaborate, but I am hungry.
In order to give a fair viewpoint I should probably explain in brief my own background.
I was born and raised in Australia, I played alot of sport, went to a decent private school for my primary years, followed that to a decent mid-tier private school for upper studies before boredom made me transfer to one of the poorest "hardest" school's in the state. Crazy choice, now that is a regret. Anyway, so I failed highschool, went to tech-school, got bored, sat my university extrance exams and went to university. Along the way I became a drug dealer, partied alot, still hit the gym and played sport. In all this time, I paid attention to the media and people around me. That gives me some sort of experience in making this statement.
In the West (the US, Australia, NZ, UK, etc) a Male at school is applauded for having a great deal of athletic ability. Where as in the East (Singapore, HK, Japan, etc) the ability to count and be good at science is appluaded. These situations have an affect on the esteem levels of people. People in the West, especially males who are good at "non-athletic" activities are not applauded, people who take drama class I.e GLEE CLUB Nonsense are considered effeminate, just like the male cheer leaders in Bring It On.
In short, people who fail to succeed athletically develop insecurities and low self esteem. It is innate, if the school bully says "Move!" you Move. Whether it is when you are 15, or 35. Same with the school jock (Athlete). So basically these people are losers!. Sounds harsh!, but do we watch EPL, and Rugby and the NBA, or the NFL or chess and maths competitions? You know the answer. Thus expats take this personal atttiude and viewpoint of themselves to the places they relocate. They recieve attention from Women. Women they only imagined at school, Women they fantasied about. Thus they treat Women like Shit. They have no respect. Their level of Self Esteem complicates this ability to show Respect and be content. Their fears make the chase and swap partners regularly. Thus damaging the people around themselves. Just because someone is a trader or a banker DOES NOT MAKE THEM NOT A LOSER. If they are expat, trust me, when someone who is an athlete or confident walks past, they will be quiet. When someone challenges them; they will be quiet. Why? Fear and Memories of the way those "athletes" made them feel growing up.
I need to elaborate, but I am hungry.
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