Sunday, September 25, 2011

Pisces and Capricorn Relationship (My experience)

This is one of the few Astrological Starsign Relationships I am completely familiar with; having been involved with numerous Capricorn Women and being a Pisces. (Strangely enough, my closest Male friend is also a Capricorn and there are a few other Pisces in the group).

The Capricorn/Pisces relationship is almost a perfect synergy, almost, but not quite.

Capricorns rely on a Pisces ability to be perceptive and push them towards their dreams, even if the Pisces lacks their own ability. Pisces often benefit from a large amount of attention from a Capricorn, this balances their vulernabilities and insecurities. Pisces are often forced to keep up with Capricorns in a social sense and this offers a Weakness in the relationship. Pisces are flirtatious similarly to Capricorns, but more shy when it comes to new situations. Capricorns are more likely to jump in straight away. This shyness in a Pisces often means that they shy from public situations (especially in Males).

Pisces are usually generous givers, this is greatly appreciated by Capricorns, who although are not materialistic in the sense of the Saggitarius cousins, who do appreciate some lavishness at times.

Capricorns generally repay the favours, as they innately feel a need to show their emotions through tasks such as cooking, etc. Capricorns are also greatly impressed by a Pisces abilities to absorb and understand a great deal of information. The ability to provide insight to foreign concepts impresses greatly. Although Pisces often get frustrated by the continual need to roll the ball (the ball being the Capricorn) and strive to create prepetual motion.

Weak Pisces and Capricorns are often a self esteem disaster as both have incredible lows and frustrations with those around them. Often the overextend in friendships about them and ultimately feel betrayed.


TBC

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Understanding Expats in Asia and their triggers/reasons/insecurities

Alot of people may dispute what I am about to write, but you know what? "Fuck them". You might question my arguement and validity, but at the end of the day, unless you have something strong back your views up with, you will have to conceed.

In order to give a fair viewpoint I should probably explain in brief my own background.
I was born and raised in Australia, I played alot of sport, went to a decent private school for my primary years, followed that to a decent mid-tier private school for upper studies before boredom made me transfer to one of the poorest "hardest" school's in the state. Crazy choice, now that is a regret. Anyway, so I failed highschool, went to tech-school, got bored, sat my university extrance exams and went to university. Along the way I became a drug dealer, partied alot, still hit the gym and played sport. In all this time, I paid attention to the media and people around me. That gives me some sort of experience in making this statement.

In the West (the US, Australia, NZ, UK, etc) a Male at school is applauded for having a great deal of athletic ability. Where as in the East (Singapore, HK, Japan, etc) the ability to count and be good at science is appluaded. These situations have an affect on the esteem levels of people. People in the West, especially males who are good at "non-athletic" activities are not applauded, people who take drama class I.e GLEE CLUB Nonsense are considered effeminate, just like the male cheer leaders in Bring It On.

In short, people who fail to succeed athletically develop insecurities and low self esteem. It is innate, if the school bully says "Move!" you Move. Whether it is when you are 15, or 35. Same with the school jock (Athlete). So basically these people are losers!. Sounds harsh!, but do we watch EPL, and Rugby and the NBA, or the NFL or chess and maths competitions? You know the answer. Thus expats take this personal atttiude and viewpoint of themselves to the places they relocate. They recieve attention from Women. Women they only imagined at school, Women they fantasied about. Thus they treat Women like Shit. They have no respect. Their level of Self Esteem complicates this ability to show Respect and be content. Their fears make the chase and swap partners regularly. Thus damaging the people around themselves. Just because someone is a trader or a banker DOES NOT MAKE THEM NOT A LOSER. If they are expat, trust me, when someone who is an athlete or confident walks past, they will be quiet. When someone challenges them; they will be quiet. Why? Fear and Memories of the way those "athletes" made them feel growing up.

I need to elaborate, but I am hungry.