Bridges - Draft

Life and Relationships are like Bridge Building. We as people have an innate need to develop and build our Bridge and Connect the two sides together; the culmination of our existence. However, before this can be further expanded, there are a few important factors people must be aware of, to understand this concept. Firstly; this desire to build is innate, it is internal and subconscious and failure to do so or stagnation in the process leads to a great deal of anguish and less than ideal choices. i.e Depression, Suicide. Secondly, this desire requires some form of fulfillment, regardless of the Methods used, however the Quality of the Outcome can still be questionable. Thirdly, the most important, Men and Women are on opposing sides. Fourthly, it is both possible to build the Bridge and gain satisfaction within life alone and lastly, the Bridge can only be built in tandem with someone of the opposing gender.

In the beginning, we do not actually have any semblance of a Bridge, we slowly develop this and put in place the foundations as we move through Primary School and Early Childhood. Obviously just like a Bridge in development in regards to bearing load, a Person in the formative years lacks the experience, intelligence, age, maturity to connect and maintain a genuine connection that does not create damage to the Bridge.